So The Dream Way is nearly ready to launch and I'm like hmmm… Im no marketing genius but it would probably be a good idea to make a blog post on it…. Well, this isn't really it, but it is related to finishing my first book. For a long while now you could very well say I was working on 'naturalizing' my game, and becoming more of a normal cool dude (this is still a progressive thing for me as well). There were, and still are certain aspects that aren't natural per say however. Things like working logistics and such. Does this make them wrong? Does this mean I should work on being so awesome that women just figure everything out for me to make sex happen? Probably not…like Sinn says, let's face it, if you go out with any intent to bring a girl home, it's manipulative. You're going to make something happen that wouldn't have probably happened had you sat at home like a lump on a log. But that's aside the point. What I'm getting at here is that before I started going 'natural', I worked on 'outer' game. Things like tactics/techniques/routines. This is part of the personality ethic, short term fixes for larger underlying problems. Eventually I moved onto more advanced things. Things like behaviors, attitudes, vocal changes, etc… A little bit deeper, but still in the context of the 'personality ethic' as described in the 7 Habits of Highly Effective people. Eventually I moved even deeper, starting to actively focus on how I THOUGHT on a day to day basis. Deeper personality traits…things like being more of a MAN, being more witty, more dominant, more charismatic, nixing out weaknesses (neediness for example). This was a big step in the right direction as it moves me closer to the core, the character ethic. Combine that with thousands of reference experiences and tangible results, you have a new reality, a new window to which I see the world as it unfolds, and what I expect of the world as it unfolds around me. Anyways I'm starting to confuse myself here haha…but the point is, I started out with the outer, and have progressively moved to a more inner based LIFE. And now I feel that I'm actually grasping at the core of what certain things in life are REALLY about….wooo scary ;). How does this relate to The Dream Way? It's a sign from myself, to myself that I have the vast majority of the outer handled with women. Not just social calibration/logistics etc…but even things like certain levels of my personality. And now I can begin moving faster down a certain path that leads to further identity level changes, which is really fucking cool. It's like I can now SEE these underlying problems that I was blind to before (even if it was staring me in the face or someone was telling them to me matter of fact). How does this relate to the title? Well in one light you could quote Tyler from the BP "The more personal the problem, the more universal" I think that's a really awesome quote, but it's not so simple. The other light shines a little brighter, and a little deeper down that quote. That light says (to me) "The more personal, the more universal, yes…BUT, is it the problem that's so universal, or the source?" I guess I'm beginning to see that at least with my close friends, problems may seem un-related surface level, but at the end of the day most stem from the same source. Food for thought -Dream
