Today I want to go over a few situations that I've encountered.
1. Unconcious competence with Super Hot Kickboxing instructor
So there's this 9.5 classicly hot blonde kick boxing instructor at UCF. Met her long ago when I would be out at the bar she also worked at. "Tried" getting her number then, yadayada...went no where, but we were pretty cool with each other.
Low and behold I start taking kickboxing at UCF and she's the instructor.
Got to talk to her more one on one, flirted during the class, etc...
After class each day I walk as part of my cool down. She knew this...then one day we were talking after class and in my own mind I was like hmm... I want her to go walking with me.
"hey I'd like to keep talking but I'm going walking now"
Sure enough she followed suit, actually begging me to stay and walk more after I was done.
And this is from a porn star hot blonde. Small event, but blew my mind back then to see this happen, and didn't understand why till recently.
2. Unconcious incompetence- wanted a girl I was fucking to take a shower with me
I laid that chick the first day back from my cruise adventure with Ratisse and 2 friends. In the morning I wanted her to take a shower with me (I was curious as I had never done that before).
"Hey Im gonna take a shower, you can come if you want"
I could sense she wanted to, but didn't. Weird...why? I was cool about it, and not needy...right?
3. Concious competence- took a shower with her
She came over about a week later and we fucked all night again, woohoo =).
In the morning once again I wanted her to take a shower with me, but I the previous experience, why I still didn't understand it, said that stating what I wanted in this situation wasnt going to help.
So, I woke up, kissed her on the forhead and hopped in the shower. Not 30 seconds later she almost runs to jump in the shower with me.
Im thinking...wtf? lol
4. Unconscious incompetence- at the gym again with the hot blonde
Been going to kickboxing for a while now, havent walked with that chick again since. Don't care to much but I was curious as to why. Without thinking about the previous experience with my semi-fb I do what I did to NOT get her in the shower.
I invited her to come walk
"Hey Im going to go walking, you should come"
Sounds good on paper right?
Yeah, didn't work. I could sense she wanted to, but didn't.
WTF!!!??!?!!?!?
lol
5. Conscious competence- figured it out
At the gym yesterday I was heading to teach my last jump rope class. While walking I bump into this cute girl I had in my dance class last semester, and danced with at a bar once (the vibe was there).
I want her to come to jump rope. Not only is it cool to have more students but Im genuinely interested in her.
So what do I do?
I show a willingness to WALK AWAY
I mention it to her, tell her how cool it is, chat for a minute, and then run off to class. Hey I gotta go jump rope! ;)
Point being, she knew I liked her, I knew she liked me. I wanted her to come to class, and you know what? She did, and now facebooked me.
Had I invited her to come, I can guarantee you that she would NOT have. It's denying her feminine core on some small level, and she doesn't want that.
Anyways....
Do you have it?
-Dream
